Expressing the C-word

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It’s that moment where he looks at you and says 3 words, 8 letters, that are about to change your world…I Love You. You would think that you would be ecstatic or over the moon, but you find yourself standing there not saying a word. Thoughts start racing through your mind, begging you to say something, anything but you don’t and you left scouting the room in search of  the nearest exist.

Many people think that when we mention the word commitment it is associated with men, but now-a-days you find that women are the one’s kissing and breaking hearts. Even though the quantity between men and women who don’t commit to relationships is not greatly wide, the ‘modern era’ has allowed a woman to have more freedom to control her life.

Therefore for many women who transition from a young girl to a woman tend to be more focused about their careers and may find it difficult to commit to a steady relationship.  One must remember that women are described as emotional beings and it is the fear of a man defining who we are, that plays a major role for many women who are struggling to commit to their potential partners. 

Each individual overcomes obstacles when it comes to commitment. These are three steps in order for woman to begin the process of trying to overcome commitment. Redefine what commitment means to you, by stating what is important one can build a foundation of trust and honesty between you and you’re partner. The next step is to focus on your goals, women do want to succeed in their career but the key is to find a balance between work and play time.  Finally by talking to someone professional that doesn’t know you, will give you and unbiased opinion about the fears in your life, this will help overcome the fears trapped within you. Commitment is not something that goes away overnight but the journey beings with you choosing to overcome this.

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