The EX files

Adapted from google images 

Often in our life we encounter the people that we hope we would never have to deal with again, but, we have to in order for us to get some sort of closure. When one is single we go through loads of heartbreaks and often we question ourselves when that certain ex enters our life again.

Now we are all human, we’re going to wonder if we can ever have the same moments we had with them but sadly we can’t. There’s a reason why we end up letting go of that person we care most about but the hard part of this, is that we want them to comfort us, tell us the right things when no one else is listening.  How do we deal with this?  The hardest part of getting closure is admitting that things between you and him are over. 

When an old fling or ex-boyfriend comes back into your life I like to think of this a test. A test to see if you have been telling yourself, you are really over this person just for the sake of pleasing your friends but you know that deep down you’re afraid that they are going to judge you if you’re not over him yet or a test for you to see how you will be able to handle them coming back into your life.

It’s never easy for one to let go of that person, and often when one is single a sense of vulnerability comes along with this and it is so easy for you to fall back into a place where your falling for the same moves he used on you the first time you liked him. After a while you find yourself back where you started at the place where you start to realise why you ended things. The point of realisation comes when you find yourself wishing for the things that made you like him and in this moment you wish you could save and hit repeat whenever things got bad but realisations kicks in when we realise it can never be like. Sometimes exes come back to remind us of what not to do the next time we fall but one should also take note that we should remember the good times and not let the bad times cloud our future.

L.O.V.E

S