Best Friend to Boyfriend???

adapted from cloudfront.net 

Often having a best guy friend can be great, you can talk to them about all the stuff that your girls might be afraid to tell you. They sometimes will end up telling you what you want to hear rather then what you should hear. This is where the guy steps in; because we don't want to hear the truth he is there too snap us back into reality. You feel that he is the person who is going to understand you and sometimes he will have the same views that you would have about a relationship. However can this be dangerous?

When you are drowning in sorrow about being single, we find ourselves leaning towards our guys for comfort. Without noticing this you find the worst thing that could happen start to take over, you fall for him! All sorts of questions race through your mind and confusion takes over, first he is your best friend and you start to think, could you guys ever be an item or will it ruin your friendship. We never know, you think how on earth will I tell him and worse what will he think. Often our fears cloud our judgments and hesitation takes over. This situation is never easy and we shelter our feelings.

Regardless of the situation one should turn their fears into courage, if your friendship is that strong you guys will probably be laughing about it down the line, along with the other great memories you have shared together. Even though there is a possibility that a friendship might be broken,on the other hand it can blossom into one of the best relationships you might find yourself having. Everyone goes through heartbreak but it’s like riding a bicycle you have to take that first leap, you won't begin the journey if you don't try.

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