Best Friend to Boyfriend???

adapted from cloudfront.net 

Often having a best guy friend can be great, you can talk to them about all the stuff that your girls might be afraid to tell you. They sometimes will end up telling you what you want to hear rather then what you should hear. This is where the guy steps in; because we don't want to hear the truth he is there too snap us back into reality. You feel that he is the person who is going to understand you and sometimes he will have the same views that you would have about a relationship. However can this be dangerous?

When you are drowning in sorrow about being single, we find ourselves leaning towards our guys for comfort. Without noticing this you find the worst thing that could happen start to take over, you fall for him! All sorts of questions race through your mind and confusion takes over, first he is your best friend and you start to think, could you guys ever be an item or will it ruin your friendship. We never know, you think how on earth will I tell him and worse what will he think. Often our fears cloud our judgments and hesitation takes over. This situation is never easy and we shelter our feelings.

Regardless of the situation one should turn their fears into courage, if your friendship is that strong you guys will probably be laughing about it down the line, along with the other great memories you have shared together. Even though there is a possibility that a friendship might be broken,on the other hand it can blossom into one of the best relationships you might find yourself having. Everyone goes through heartbreak but it’s like riding a bicycle you have to take that first leap, you won't begin the journey if you don't try.

L.O.V.E

S

Night Out

adapted: http://blog.newsok.com/shopping/files/

I don't know about you but everyone deserves a night out whether it is dinner, drinks or even seeing a movie. Sometimes you need that space where you just want to get away from the things that irritate you. 

A bliss side to being single is that you can do whatever you want whenever you want without any of the questions that are ringing in the background. It’s always where are you going, who’s going to be there and why am I not coming with you. Relationships can be a drag and always trying to please the next person can sometimes result in arguments that will never end.

Taking a friend and going to watch a movie is the best thing ever; you catch up with the latest gossip and just hang out. Even going with a parent I mean it isn't that bad, when you are teenagers they say that one just wants to get as far as possible from your parents but sometimes it’s nice just having that bonding time, praying it won’t turn into an argument but hey that’s the part of growing up. You’re going to meet people, date and break up even if you don’t its okay. I mean sometimes relationships have so much expectation that comes along with this it just becomes like a job that you hate. 

Sometimes enjoy what have, I mean so many of my friends say I wish I could just have a break from him. I treasure the moments I have to myself, enjoying the moments with family and friends these are the memories you are going to look back at when you’re married or divorced or even if you’re still single….it’s okay…so treasure each and every moment and have a night out

L.O.V.E

S.

4 Party Guys...

Adapted from google 

So you’re single and your friends want to find a Mr Right for you, what's the first place they mostly likely going to take you to meet new people... A club. It is a place to socialise, meet new friends and have a few drinks with the girls. Generally I know when I go out with my friends and  get tired of dancing I like to chill by the bar and have a break from the intenseness of the music. This is where I like to introduce the four types of guys a single person is bound to meet at a club throughout the night.

Lets start with Guy number 1: I like to call him, the "hugger" (King of Spades), these types of guys see girls sitting at a bar and will on countless occasions throughout the night try and pick you up with that cliché line. However you probably will find yourself bored and irritated, so politely tell the guy that your not interested sometimes honesty is the best policy.

Guy number 2, I like to call him the buyer(King of diamonds); these guys are actually friendly. Usually they will come over to the bar and sometimes see you sitting there. They are friendly because they start of with greeting you next have a bit of small chat and then offer to buy you a drink. However the plus side is that most of these buyers will tell you to enjoy your evening and you'll hardly see him throughout the night.

Which brings us to Guy 3: the dancer( King of Clubs), he is quiet enjoyable because he is the type of guy who will pull you from your seat and get you dancing, whether it is a friend you might have bumped into, a nice chilled guy or some guy that just loves dancing, regardless of this you will have a good time.

Finally Guy number 4: "Mc Dreamy" "C.GREY"(King of hearts) you name it, this is the guy you might fancy and find yourself staring at him. When this guy approaches you'll probably act like a school girl crushing on that high school jock. This is the guy is the type of guy that you hope is sweet, kind, funny, but beware they might not be as they sweet as they seem.

So next time you decide to go out remember your girls love you, they just want to see you happy, try go out and forget about hooking up with a guy. Just have fun.

L.O.V.E

S