Playing the Field

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Who is Mr. Right? Is there a Mr. Right?

We read novels about finding that perfect guy yet when it comes to reality we can be selective, He should have this quality, and he should look like a Christian Grey or a Damon Salvatore.  However because of our expectations guy we meet sometimes never lives up to our expectations.

We often wonder why we can’t accept the people that come into our lives. Why is it that we have this illusion that makes us want to conform to who society thinks is the right guy that should come into our lives? This leads to us playing the field, which might include, going out on dates, random hook ups that no one cares about or even flirting to gain attention without the caring about the other person.  Sometimes we don’t realise that playing the field can be a cover up so that we can hide and avoid that commitment of a relationship.

The perks of dating is tricky and complicated, are we sometimes too scared to let a person in that we push them away. Often being single can overcrowd our thoughts and we are left wanting that 'honeymoon' phase throughout the relationship.  How far does one really have to go in order to allow that person into our lives? Maybe it is because the guy you thought was your Mr. Right has broken your heart and made you more wary of the guys you shouldn't date. This can result in some sort of effect that has made you scared of dating. Playing the field has good and bad traits but playing these types of cards may result in you lose out on something great…

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Often a lot of single people don’t how much fun one can have when they are living a life being single. There is no OMG moment where you are worried about him finding out or what have I done? Sometimes hooking up with people can be so much fun.  This can happen at a club, a party, or even between two friends who maybe have had a bit to much to drink that it just happens.

However there is always the next day syndrome of what happens now? Do I call him, When do I call him, is he going to call me? We often over think the moment instead of just having a bit of fun. However there are times when you could end up liking the person you have just hooked up with and think what should you do now? These questions are left with not enough answers and sometimes letting life take its toll is the best thing to do.

Us girls like to sometimes complicate things, I know do. Questions overflow my head but I have learnt to talk to my friends and often they might just give me the right guidance to find these solutions to these questions.  It’s great to have a glass of wine and chat to your friends you will find yourself relaxing, which is exactly what you need. Hook ups are casual, fun and the vest when you are so over having that serious relationship. The consequences that one faces after this can be tricky but one step at a time will give you all the right answers you need. Just have some fun.

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